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UK Girl age 11 - Youngest Mother
May 12, 2006 |
It started with a drunken night out with friends (and I use that term very lightly). In the end a 15 year old impregnates an 11 year old who is now 8 months pregnant.
A girl is to become Britain’s youngest mother after becoming pregnant at 11.
The girl smokes 20 cigarettes a day despite being eight months’ pregnant. She conceived aged 11 when she lost her virginity to a boy of 15 on a drunken night out with friends.
The mother can’t even control her own daughter so I am not surprised. Hard to be amazed anymore, but listen to the 11 year old’s take on this.
She told the Sun: “I didn’t think I’d get pregnant because it was my first time. But I’m really excited and looking forward to being a mum.
From recreational sex to recreational babies. Of course she thinks she will have fun. She will have no real responsibility. I am sure in 11 years that she can have a mommy to daughter talk about how its that time to get pregnant. Dysfunctional families create a dysfunctional society. Perhaps its time to let such children to marry. May the boy could have several wives to occupy his time when one doesn’t feel good from the pregnancy. You say too young for that. Well, its too young for children emotionally and physically for this as well. But apparently its not the problem one once thought.
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how can a baby have another baby and think it will be fun? I am almost 25 years old and would love to have a baby with my husband of 5 years but am thinking about the future of my child and our finances. that is just very ignorant of the mother to let her daughter be this uncontrollable. does she not realize that either she will be the one taking care of her grandchild until her duaghter can or since she can’t seem to take care of her own child then she will possibly need to put the child up for adoption.
I think it’s fine. I see no reason this little girl couldn’t have a baby when she wants to. I’m twelve and I plan on having a child of my own when I’m eighteen, so there’s nothing wrong with this.
There is a big difference between 11, 12 and the age of 18. Something you don’t realize right now… but should take it as fact even if you don’t understand it.
I think she is a trifling hoe like her mama who let her but what happens happens and she has a responsibility
The Creator of the world gave women the ability to become pregnant when they reach the age of puberty and begin menstruating. It is the responsibilityof the parent to educate and prepare them for this fact. The society needs to earlier prepare the youth for responsibility, earning income much earlier than eighteen and being responsible for their own maintenance, and preparing for marriage. It is rediculous for government to try to determine what age is appropriate for young people to have sex or children when the desire and capability to procreate is so obviously ingrained in human nature by the Creator. Their desire is natural. The way they go about it though is not correct. And perhaps if these societies would encourage marriage much sooner when both parents and the young adults feel the need is there along with facilitating the means of the young man to support his young bride , teaching and guarding against ludeness, inappropriate mixing of the sexes and the evils of fornication,situations like this would not be a disgrace for all involved and would stabilize, structure, and improve the moral fiber of society. Again the issue is not this young ladies age but the way she has disgraced herself and her family. In addition, the disgrace also falls upon the young man who has disgraced himself and contributed to the lack of descent men and fathers in the world. Men need to be held accountable for their contribution to illegitimacy as much if not more so than women. The downfall of family and society has begun with disobeying the laws of our Creator and will continue to deteriorate until we return to His obedience. Return to the sanctity of marriage first under fear of your Lord and faith. This is and always has been the solution.
Also, society needs to impliment laws that hold people accountable for fornication. All these other people comment on the fact that this young girl is pregnant and seem to care less about the act itself. The pattern of thinking in adults in deficient so how can you expect more from children. There is obviously no moral upbringing in this home which mimics the majority of whats going on inthe streets. Dont complain about babies having babies when you let your young girls dress sexually explicit, watch and listen to thig that encourage this type of behavior. You teach your boys that girls are nothing more than sex objects every day with the ads you run in magazines, newspapers,etc. you cant even without protraying images of half naked women with painted faces enticing viewers to pay more attention to them than th news. How can you expect young minds to combat such subliminal programming while they have absolutely no moral or faith based home environment or educational institutions. The seeds of corruption continue to be sown. Now you are reaping the results. If you want to keep getting what you are getting keep doing what you are doing. And instead of looking at this young girls situation thinking you are above her look at how your thoughts and actions can and do contribute to the problem. What morals do you have that make you better and hopefully prevent something like this from happening to your child, boy or girl.
I LIVE I AMERICA AND I THINK THAT IS OBSURD.
SHE SHOULD BE ASHAMED OF HER SELF SHE NEEDS SOMEONE TO TELL HER THAT THIS WILL NOT BE FUN NOR EASY! THIS IS VERY WEIRD!?!?!!?
I am 10 Years old and this is nothing I had my first when i started my period at eight years allthough my son is now 2 years old and one hard child I’m pregnant again by 7 mos. I’m having a girl and I’ve picked out my names so all those parents who think this is bullshit and think it’s to hard for her think of me I did it for two years and still am moving along just fine I’m looking forward to having two children and know it’s not as challenging is was when I was doing house duty while living with my mom and my 2 weak old baby being with his 9 year old father so all you adults up there who don’t even have kids and think it’s to hard for us younger girls fuck you we can do it just fine you have no clue because you don’t even have a kid.
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Justine
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well me catlin im 11 n iv my mum and dad found out about about me being prego they would kill the person responsable and i wouldnt feal to exsited my self i would feal ashamed to no that i was hanving a baby at 11 well i am a kid aswell ! ITS SICK !!
hi its caitlin justine GET A LIFE WHAT DO YA WANT A MEDALL AWW YA STUPID SILLY LITTLE GIRL !!
I FEEL SOOOOO SOORY FOR UR CHILDEREN YANOO DO YA TINK YA GOOD YA LIL SLAGG WOT DO U THINK ITS NOT CLEVER AND IT DOESNT MAKE YOU LOOK BIG AND GOOD ON YA MUM AN DAD FOR BEIN ASHAMED OF YA ! ! !
At the age of 11, I don’t think anyone really has the responsibility to be making these kind of decisions. I wouldn’t have at 11, and I might have felt the way this girl did about it. That’s why it’s her parents’ job to keep her away from situations like that. And what about the 15-year-old boy? Why is no one talking about him?
Legally a girl that young *can’t* be said to give consent. Those who take advantage of her have a double responsibility for their own wrong-doing and the harm done to her. This will take away an eleven-year-old girl’s childhood, as it has already taken away her innocence, and it will probably do her physical harm as well. Shame on those who have done such harm to this little girl.
well im 11 and next weekend im gona have sex with a 14 year old and i smoke!
i think it’s so crazy 4 a girl @ 11 2 get pregnant.sincerely speaking it doesn’t speak well of d mother 2 allow her child 2 bcom wild @ dat age .no matter d situation u find urself.i think dis will educate other parents who don’t care about their children.God gave dem 2 u nd u must teach them d ways of God.And if u knw u can’t take care of dem pliz do give dem up 4 adoption 2 pple dat care 4 dem
Amazing, mother at 8. Who was the delivering doctor?
No one has the wright to judge lest they be judged according to the bible. No one under the age of leagle concent in each state has the ability to say yes to sex. Although, the law does say that if they are within a year or two of the others age, it is childs pplay and not sex in the since that we know it. That is not saying that someone can not get in deep trouble over it.
The law is fickled like our kids. At that age I would have loved to get the girl I thought I was in love with. I didn’t get any till I was eighteen. Big mistake I think sometimes. I love all my kids. I wish things could have gone better for me. But That girl and her babys dad needs counsling and they need help with the child, not cut down for there mistake of not waiting. Good luck kids. Wait untill your old enough next time.
I would love to have a baby. I think about those things all the time. But I would want to support myself before and go to college first. Sure I will probably at prom but I will be on birth control and use everything to prevent having a baby. After I get a good job then I will find a man I love and we will talk about a baby and that is my plan.I am 13 going to be 14 on July 13. I do babysit so I know how to handle kids.
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I am glad to see the worlds youngsters discussing this openly. I am not all that happy about the stuffy religious opinions. This discussions should be based on the best verifiable facts to be found. To the best of my knowledge it actually possible to get pregnant before menarche, gals do start ovulating before they are even born. Before menarche such ovulation is very irregular (can happen at any time, and may not happen for several consecutive months). Try CDC and similar medical sites. One of the obstacles that is reduced at menarche is the ability for the uterine lining to accept implantation of the fertilized ova. It also tends to stabilize the ovulation pattern resulting in relatively predictable fertile times.
Hey, i just wanted to say i think its really upsettin that all you 11 and 12 yr olds think its good to have babies at such a young age i know if ur already pregnant there aint alot u can do but the 1s that r talkin about tryin to have a baby i seriously suggest u dont, im 27 my Fiancee Is 21 we have been together 5 years we are expectin our 1st baby in March, it wasnt planned and we dont believe in abortions but we kinda regret not bein extra careful as even tho we are ready 4 a baby we would of liked 2 wait a few more years,Ask any parent its so tough bringin up a child if ur 18 or 38 so i am in no doubt that by the time ur baby is 1 u wil really regret not stayin in school and havin a life!.
well god bless her i had my child when i was 14 it was all over the news but i tell you something peoples it was the biggest mistke …but it wasnt me ,,,,i got raped one night going to fusion with my friends i never go out now even with my friends i am scared to deth everytime i look at this baby i c a man i dont no
i think thats true because she people feel that when she sex at a party and she was drunk and it was her first time then maybe thats true and that is your story on hoe she fell. ima take her side on the story and i beleve you to girl.
i am 16 i have a baby of my on i gat pregnet wene i was 15. i dont regret my baby but i was to young
i am 16 i have a baby of my on i got pregnant wene i was 15. i love my baby
well i think that all them young girls should wait until they are ready for a child… i knoe they aint be ready for no responsibility yet… they just to young
i think she should think about not having the baby.{Not that i think she is going to make bad choices.} Just that i really wouldn’t think about {KIDS} at that age..Cause she could die by a risk..She cold have a dream like if she wanted to be a model she wouldn’t be one because of her body figure..Some girls think it is so cool to nasty and a freak..no it really isn’t because onces you do it a couple of times u may not want to stop and that can get u a bad name…{At a young age}.I am 11 years old i see girls beging nasty and hot each day of my life i noticed that one day this 12 year old had sex wit a 16 year old she called it rape but in that case i wasn’t because she was interested and wanted to do it..so at a youg at you have a whole way of life ahead of you..i would stay in a child’s place..
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I dont care much for the circumstances that led to the pregnancy. But, I have no problem with young girls getting pregnant. It was “man” who decided to change the laws of nature(so he thinks). But nature dictates differently. If a girl can get pregnant, she will.
Also, because man dictates about right and wrong, curiosity will kill the cat every time. Just another reminder that whats one man’s business is not another’s.
History has proven that most boys(and many men) are incapable of fatherhood at a young age. The male is preoccupied with spreading his seed, its that simple. The force is too great to overcome temptation. There’s no rational thinking there.
On the other hand, girls are very capable of motherhood. After all look what they get to go through leading up to it for nine months. A nurturing(and hopefully educated) mother would be more supportive than anything else to get the glass more than half full.
Society and all its ideals are man-made and tend to be a burden upon what nature means by “reality”. I dont see marriages in the animal kingdom. Yet, they have a better life than we do, in a very unselfish way too.
All girls around that tender young age are different. Just because one 16 year old isnt ready for sex doesnt mean an 11 year isnt. SEX isnt a dirty word. It only looks that way because our world is infested with religion and media which is the true evil that hinders the positive growth of uncorrupted human nature.
The devil denies his own true color and his name is MAN.