UK Girl age 11 - Youngest Mother

mary on Sat, 30th Jun 2007 6:19 pm 

how can a baby have another baby and think it will be fun? I am almost 25 years old and would love to have a baby with my husband of 5 years but am thinking about the future of my child and our finances. that is just very ignorant of the mother to let her daughter be this uncontrollable. does she not realize that either she will be the one taking care of her grandchild until her duaghter can or since she can’t seem to take care of her own child then she will possibly need to put the child up for adoption.

Annaleise on Mon, 27th Aug 2007 11:59 pm 

I think it’s fine. I see no reason this little girl couldn’t have a baby when she wants to. I’m twelve and I plan on having a child of my own when I’m eighteen, so there’s nothing wrong with this.

Conservative Culture on Tue, 28th Aug 2007 9:17 am 

There is a big difference between 11, 12 and the age of 18. Something you don’t realize right now… but should take it as fact even if you don’t understand it.

5566 on Sat, 8th Sep 2007 12:40 pm 

I think she is a trifling hoe like her mama who let her but what happens happens and she has a responsibility

jathiyah on Sun, 9th Sep 2007 7:05 am 

The Creator of the world gave women the ability to become pregnant when they reach the age of puberty and begin menstruating. It is the responsibilityof the parent to educate and prepare them for this fact. The society needs to earlier prepare the youth for responsibility, earning income much earlier than eighteen and being responsible for their own maintenance, and preparing for marriage. It is rediculous for government to try to determine what age is appropriate for young people to have sex or children when the desire and capability to procreate is so obviously ingrained in human nature by the Creator. Their desire is natural. The way they go about it though is not correct. And perhaps if these societies would encourage marriage much sooner when both parents and the young adults feel the need is there along with facilitating the means of the young man to support his young bride , teaching and guarding against ludeness, inappropriate mixing of the sexes and the evils of fornication,situations like this would not be a disgrace for all involved and would stabilize, structure, and improve the moral fiber of society. Again the issue is not this young ladies age but the way she has disgraced herself and her family. In addition, the disgrace also falls upon the young man who has disgraced himself and contributed to the lack of descent men and fathers in the world. Men need to be held accountable for their contribution to illegitimacy as much if not more so than women. The downfall of family and society has begun with disobeying the laws of our Creator and will continue to deteriorate until we return to His obedience. Return to the sanctity of marriage first under fear of your Lord and faith. This is and always has been the solution.

jathiyah on Sun, 9th Sep 2007 7:23 am 

Also, society needs to impliment laws that hold people accountable for fornication. All these other people comment on the fact that this young girl is pregnant and seem to care less about the act itself. The pattern of thinking in adults in deficient so how can you expect more from children. There is obviously no moral upbringing in this home which mimics the majority of whats going on inthe streets. Dont complain about babies having babies when you let your young girls dress sexually explicit, watch and listen to thig that encourage this type of behavior. You teach your boys that girls are nothing more than sex objects every day with the ads you run in magazines, newspapers,etc. you cant even without protraying images of half naked women with painted faces enticing viewers to pay more attention to them than th news. How can you expect young minds to combat such subliminal programming while they have absolutely no moral or faith based home environment or educational institutions. The seeds of corruption continue to be sown. Now you are reaping the results. If you want to keep getting what you are getting keep doing what you are doing. And instead of looking at this young girls situation thinking you are above her look at how your thoughts and actions can and do contribute to the problem. What morals do you have that make you better and hopefully prevent something like this from happening to your child, boy or girl.

KATLIN on Thu, 4th Oct 2007 4:43 pm 

I LIVE I AMERICA AND I THINK THAT IS OBSURD.
SHE SHOULD BE ASHAMED OF HER SELF SHE NEEDS SOMEONE TO TELL HER THAT THIS WILL NOT BE FUN NOR EASY! THIS IS VERY WEIRD!?!?!!?

Justine Savanna Isaac on Thu, 25th Oct 2007 12:36 pm 

I am 10 Years old and this is nothing I had my first when i started my period at eight years allthough my son is now 2 years old and one hard child I’m pregnant again by 7 mos. I’m having a girl and I’ve picked out my names so all those parents who think this is bullshit and think it’s to hard for her think of me I did it for two years and still am moving along just fine I’m looking forward to having two children and know it’s not as challenging is was when I was doing house duty while living with my mom and my 2 weak old baby being with his 9 year old father so all you adults up there who don’t even have kids and think it’s to hard for us younger girls fuck you we can do it just fine you have no clue because you don’t even have a kid.
Sincerely,
Justine
P.S. If you want to talk to me about ANYTHING email me at veachbraylee@yahoo.com bye…..

caitlin on Mon, 29th Oct 2007 2:02 pm 

well me catlin im 11 n iv my mum and dad found out about about me being prego they would kill the person responsable and i wouldnt feal to exsited my self i would feal ashamed to no that i was hanving a baby at 11 well i am a kid aswell ! ITS SICK !!

caitlin on Mon, 29th Oct 2007 2:06 pm 

hi its caitlin justine GET A LIFE WHAT DO YA WANT A MEDALL AWW YA STUPID SILLY LITTLE GIRL !!
I FEEL SOOOOO SOORY FOR UR CHILDEREN YANOO DO YA TINK YA GOOD YA LIL SLAGG WOT DO U THINK ITS NOT CLEVER AND IT DOESNT MAKE YOU LOOK BIG AND GOOD ON YA MUM AN DAD FOR BEIN ASHAMED OF YA ! ! !

Sheila on Mon, 29th Oct 2007 3:00 pm 

At the age of 11, I don’t think anyone really has the responsibility to be making these kind of decisions. I wouldn’t have at 11, and I might have felt the way this girl did about it. That’s why it’s her parents’ job to keep her away from situations like that. And what about the 15-year-old boy? Why is no one talking about him?

Legally a girl that young *can’t* be said to give consent. Those who take advantage of her have a double responsibility for their own wrong-doing and the harm done to her. This will take away an eleven-year-old girl’s childhood, as it has already taken away her innocence, and it will probably do her physical harm as well. Shame on those who have done such harm to this little girl.

chloe on Sun, 4th Nov 2007 2:23 pm 

well im 11 and next weekend im gona have sex with a 14 year old and i smoke!

bionce on Sun, 18th Nov 2007 3:14 pm 

i think it’s so crazy 4 a girl @ 11 2 get pregnant.sincerely speaking it doesn’t speak well of d mother 2 allow her child 2 bcom wild @ dat age .no matter d situation u find urself.i think dis will educate other parents who don’t care about their children.God gave dem 2 u nd u must teach them d ways of God.And if u knw u can’t take care of dem pliz do give dem up 4 adoption 2 pple dat care 4 dem

jkk on Sun, 25th Nov 2007 2:16 am 

Amazing, mother at 8. Who was the delivering doctor?

Lifes story goes like this. on Mon, 26th Nov 2007 5:24 am 

No one has the wright to judge lest they be judged according to the bible. No one under the age of leagle concent in each state has the ability to say yes to sex. Although, the law does say that if they are within a year or two of the others age, it is childs pplay and not sex in the since that we know it. That is not saying that someone can not get in deep trouble over it.
The law is fickled like our kids. At that age I would have loved to get the girl I thought I was in love with. I didn’t get any till I was eighteen. Big mistake I think sometimes. I love all my kids. I wish things could have gone better for me. But That girl and her babys dad needs counsling and they need help with the child, not cut down for there mistake of not waiting. Good luck kids. Wait untill your old enough next time.

Casey on Mon, 10th Dec 2007 9:32 am 

I would love to have a baby. I think about those things all the time. But I would want to support myself before and go to college first. Sure I will probably at prom but I will be on birth control and use everything to prevent having a baby. After I get a good job then I will find a man I love and we will talk about a baby and that is my plan.I am 13 going to be 14 on July 13. I do babysit so I know how to handle kids.

: )

quiettechblue@yahoo.com on Sun, 16th Dec 2007 5:15 pm 

I am glad to see the worlds youngsters discussing this openly. I am not all that happy about the stuffy religious opinions. This discussions should be based on the best verifiable facts to be found. To the best of my knowledge it actually possible to get pregnant before menarche, gals do start ovulating before they are even born. Before menarche such ovulation is very irregular (can happen at any time, and may not happen for several consecutive months). Try CDC and similar medical sites. One of the obstacles that is reduced at menarche is the ability for the uterine lining to accept implantation of the fertilized ova. It also tends to stabilize the ovulation pattern resulting in relatively predictable fertile times.

Sean on Mon, 17th Dec 2007 8:53 pm 

Hey, i just wanted to say i think its really upsettin that all you 11 and 12 yr olds think its good to have babies at such a young age i know if ur already pregnant there aint alot u can do but the 1s that r talkin about tryin to have a baby i seriously suggest u dont, im 27 my Fiancee Is 21 we have been together 5 years we are expectin our 1st baby in March, it wasnt planned and we dont believe in abortions but we kinda regret not bein extra careful as even tho we are ready 4 a baby we would of liked 2 wait a few more years,Ask any parent its so tough bringin up a child if ur 18 or 38 so i am in no doubt that by the time ur baby is 1 u wil really regret not stayin in school and havin a life!.

miley on Wed, 26th Dec 2007 5:05 pm 

well god bless her i had my child when i was 14 it was all over the news but i tell you something peoples it was the biggest mistke …but it wasnt me ,,,,i got raped one night going to fusion with my friends i never go out now even with my friends i am scared to deth everytime i look at this baby i c a man i dont no

sarah on Tue, 15th Apr 2008 1:25 pm 

i think thats true because she people feel that when she sex at a party and she was drunk and it was her first time then maybe thats true and that is your story on hoe she fell. ima take her side on the story and i beleve you to girl.

ashley on Wed, 16th Apr 2008 10:28 am 

i am 16 i have a baby of my on i gat pregnet wene i was 15. i dont regret my baby but i was to young

Ashley herring on Wed, 16th Apr 2008 10:32 am 

i am 16 i have a baby of my on i got pregnant wene i was 15. i love my baby

DeLdIzzLE!! XP on Sun, 27th Apr 2008 3:21 am 

well i think that all them young girls should wait until they are ready for a child… i knoe they aint be ready for no responsibility yet… they just to young

Simone on Tue, 29th Apr 2008 6:51 pm 

i think she should think about not having the baby.{Not that i think she is going to make bad choices.} Just that i really wouldn’t think about {KIDS} at that age..Cause she could die by a risk..She cold have a dream like if she wanted to be a model she wouldn’t be one because of her body figure..Some girls think it is so cool to nasty and a freak..no it really isn’t because onces you do it a couple of times u may not want to stop and that can get u a bad name…{At a young age}.I am 11 years old i see girls beging nasty and hot each day of my life i noticed that one day this 12 year old had sex wit a 16 year old she called it rape but in that case i wasn’t because she was interested and wanted to do it..so at a youg at you have a whole way of life ahead of you..i would stay in a child’s place..

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JoeJ on Fri, 2nd May 2008 5:58 pm 

I dont care much for the circumstances that led to the pregnancy. But, I have no problem with young girls getting pregnant. It was “man” who decided to change the laws of nature(so he thinks). But nature dictates differently. If a girl can get pregnant, she will.

Also, because man dictates about right and wrong, curiosity will kill the cat every time. Just another reminder that whats one man’s business is not another’s.

History has proven that most boys(and many men) are incapable of fatherhood at a young age. The male is preoccupied with spreading his seed, its that simple. The force is too great to overcome temptation. There’s no rational thinking there.

On the other hand, girls are very capable of motherhood. After all look what they get to go through leading up to it for nine months. A nurturing(and hopefully educated) mother would be more supportive than anything else to get the glass more than half full.

Society and all its ideals are man-made and tend to be a burden upon what nature means by “reality”. I dont see marriages in the animal kingdom. Yet, they have a better life than we do, in a very unselfish way too.

All girls around that tender young age are different. Just because one 16 year old isnt ready for sex doesnt mean an 11 year isnt. SEX isnt a dirty word. It only looks that way because our world is infested with religion and media which is the true evil that hinders the positive growth of uncorrupted human nature.

The devil denies his own true color and his name is MAN.

abby on Fri, 16th May 2008 4:06 pm 

yeah thats young but there is a girl who had a child at 5 yrs. old its true because there is pictures on Snopes.com look 4 your self

bashir ahmad on Mon, 26th May 2008 1:44 am 

It is the reason of bad activiaties of western and non muslim socities. where parents allowed thier kids to ****** and to be ****** any one unknown. it is against the social norms. how many many girl got pregnancy during school and thier parnets showes reaction . This is a great sin to be pregnant from any one except your husband.
very shamfull for the parents who teenage doughters got pregnancies

[editor: comments edited for vulgar language]

Conservative Culture on Mon, 26th May 2008 6:27 am 

God designed marriage to be one man and one woman. It is within this context that sex was designed. Everything else is a perversion.

God also designed our mouths to be full of wholesome speech. It is also a great shame to speak vulgarly, something most people (including Muslims) have not learned. If you disagree note your own post above. When one listens to God in one area but not another it still means the person isn’t listening to the Creator.

lauren on Sun, 1st Jun 2008 12:29 pm 

i am shoked as ever

Amber on Tue, 3rd Jun 2008 1:34 pm 

I’m 13 years old, and i have a 3 month old baby boy named Toby.
When i was pregnant i got abused at school and almost lost him.I thank god i didnt.
I don’t make a thing about people knowing im a mother, and i have no pictures of myself when i was pregnant on my bebo or myspace like normal teen mums do. I was ashamed when i was pregnant, i love my baby boy so much, but im only just learning about how i should be proud because i’m blessed with a healthy and gorgeous baby. I’ve been with the dad since i was 11, and have known him since i was 3. We are still together to this day, and it’ll be 3 years this july. I take him everywhere apart from school obvs. My friends love him, and treat him like one of the gang(:
I’m friends with alot of skaters, and at the skatepark we have a small ramp we always sit on as a family and nobody skates near it(: i keep Toby away from all the smokers,alcohol etc. I usually go to small parties at friends most weekends, since Toby arrived, and whilst i was pregnant i didnt+havent had a single drop of alcohol.
I truely believe our family will last forever,

Bash me all you like for being a young mum,
But i feel [i dont care if this sounds big headed, cus its the truth+everyone tells me] that i’m an amazing mother.

And i’m making sure that as soon as Toby hits puberty, he’s kitted out with condoms+full sexual education. Toby ain’t being a young parent+going through what me+his father went through.

.Katiie. on Sat, 28th Jun 2008 1:36 pm 

ii am 13 in a couple of months.. and ii am truly stunned! ii cant believe this 11 year olds mother is proud of her! iif ii had ever got pregnant at 11 my mum would go BANANAS!!!
How could this girls mother let her smoke and drink at such a young age!?? ii think its ridiculous! I feel very sorry for the baby.. as if its going to grow up the way its mother did… then its going to have a hard life!
But i think she made the right decision keeping the baby as having an obortion in my opinion is the wrong thing to do. Its not the babys fault anyway!

But i think the baby should be taken into somebody elses hands, as if the mother of the 11 year old let her smoke and drink and get pregnant.. what will that poor baby grow up like? It should ahve a prper loving family.
i want children, but im DEFINATLY waiting till mid-twentys till i have one!!

.x

Charleyyy on Wed, 2nd Jul 2008 4:26 am 

i think she is a sick bitch and needs get a life i would never have a baby at any age like that anod i am 13 it is sick i wud never do it ,n i f any1 i new did ui wud just slap them n never speak to em again i aint even had sedx before it is a slaggey thing to ddo at that age i woulnt want to have sex at 13 i would have it at 15-17 with some 1 i am close to and love and an trust u r just a slaggg……..hooeee n dirty cow ..x

ugene on Thu, 3rd Jul 2008 6:41 am 

A study was done in the U.S. to find out who the poor are in this Country. 78% of the poor fell into three catagories, 1) Did not finish high school, 2) Had children without being married, and 3) Started families before they were adults. What else needs to be said? This mathematical fact should be reinforeced everyday.

christopher on Fri, 4th Jul 2008 3:18 am 

what right do any of you have to bash this little girl or any other girl or boy who has a child at such a young age.what the fuck does it have to do with you?how the fuck does this effect any of you?your all fucking pathetic,all of you want to look at how this little girl apperenty fucked up so that you dont have to think about how truly fuck in the head all of you are.

Grahame on Fri, 4th Jul 2008 4:45 pm 

As shocking as this story is, really it should be put into some sort of perspective. Young girls have been getting pregnant since the year dot. Though more so since the late 50’s. Since the late 50’s an average of 4 11-12 year olds have had a baby each year in England. The earliest recorded 12 year old having a baby was 1940. Having said all that, you’d think by 2008 we’d have this problem sorted out with proper sex education and provision of contraception. Unfortunatley the age of first intercourse and age of menarche for girls is getting younger and younger with each passing decade, so if something isnt done soon we will be hearing alot more stories like this one.

none of anyones buisness on Sat, 19th Jul 2008 6:11 pm 

Um actualy she ISNT the youngest mother in the world. The youngest mother in the world was molested at age 5 and became pregnant. She started pueberty at age three and gave birth to a healthy baby boy, It wasn’t until the boy was 10 that he realized that his 16 year old “sister” was actualy his mother. This 11 year old knew though she didn’t have to have sex shes just a whore who has no life and gets drunk I blame the parents.

sophie on Tue, 29th Jul 2008 8:03 am 

im not going to praise any of you for what you have done! but jus think most of the ppl tht put ya down defo dunt understand the consept of having a child!! im am jus glad ya didnt get rid and regret it! most pple dont understand tht the teens of 2dai are very mature and acctually do KNOW what theyr doing and the consequenses of it all! i say if you feel ready enuff to have sex then your ready enuff to have a baby and be a mother and ya jus have to accept what ya done!!! ps .. to all the pple tht put down young mothers: can you not see how brave these children are and what they go thru!!! and most of the young mothers today still go out there and get themselfs a gdgd education and a job to support their child/ren and they must be given sum credit for that and accepting there mistakes and getting on with there lifes!!! if you ask me its the quickes way to mature…. because you have to!!! theyr nothing wrong wit it in my eyes!!! if ya can conseave the ya not to young to have a kid!!! or ya wudn be able to wud ya??? think about that!!!

none of your ******** business on Mon, 11th Aug 2008 5:51 am 

I didnt think that the world was filled with such morons that some of you preach and others talk about something that they think they know,and then there’s people who need to go back to school to learn to write proper english.So people i have this to say if you are going to preach shut the **** up you no nothing about your so called creator,and to those of you who are just plain stupid like the person in the post above mine go back to ******* your cousin you ****** hillbilly.Leave these kids alone,they are not your problem,they never will be your problem and you should all burn in hell for being ******* retards.

sarah on Sat, 25th Oct 2008 3:10 pm 

I am 34 years old now, with a 16 year old daughter who by the way has NO CHILDREN! I don’t know how these young girls think that they are going to support babies! I became pregnant the first time at age 17 and was scared to death. Luckily I was somewhat responsible and began working directly after she was born. I however would never have survived without the love and support of my family. Being a parent is not a right it is a privledge and you should think about the life and needs of your future child and how they may be affected by the decision you make. I have daily up hill battles with being a parent every single day at age 34 with 3 children ages 16-12-9, Please if not for your own sake, please think abouth the well being of the child you are planning to concieve.They are truely the ones who pay th price for the parents ignorance.

natalie on Sat, 15th Nov 2008 10:18 am 

i am 12 years of age and to think a girl younger than me could be exposed to something like this so early in life is so appauling. i am also a girl from the u.k and i dont even drink let alone beyoned its discusting i partly blame the parents for this misfortune yes ok shes enjoying it now but give it three mnths and she wont have any hair left. my mother fell pregnant at the age of 16 with my sister katie who is now 21 [and at 19 also fell pregnant but lost unfortunatly ] and when i got told this i thought that was appauling but hearing this well… i think you can imagen what is running through my mind

and what was the 11 yr old girl doing going out and getting drunk it is a total mess.

for only being 12 i have seen alot of things i shouldent have and what my mother did to protect me you would not beleive risking her own life for me.which is what every good mother should do for there child.

i cannot stand parents who put things or people in front of there child my mother has told me this for as long as i can remember and i hope that this is what the 11yr old gets tought.

by natalie,12 england

Kyl on Sat, 29th Nov 2008 1:33 am 

What is this world coming too 11 yrs olds having babies? WOW. I am 21, i have a little boy, nd i stll think i am way to young and i am even married. I MADE A LOT OF MISTAKES IN LIFE. Please dont make the same mistakes i made. WAIT

francis on Thu, 11th Dec 2008 10:48 pm 

i think its crazy that a mother cannot control her own 11 year old. and that that little girl es excited to have a baby..seems as if she’s taking it as a game or something…she obviously does not know what she got herself into…wow

Monica on Sat, 13th Dec 2008 3:09 am 

I am 21 yrs old and I have 2 boys a 2 year old and a boy who’s about 2 turn one im also 14 weeks pregnant and trust me its hard and if my daughter at 11 came out preg I would slap her silly!

Lexie. on Mon, 5th Jan 2009 3:10 am 

well,first off,the little kid below me that thinks it fine is kinda retarded.
my sister got preggo at 15.
she thought it would be fun.
but after the first three days she threw my nephew,sky, at our parents.
i dont think its right for a parent to even LET a 11 year old go out to a DRINKING party.if she had common sense she would know their would be some sex going on.

At this rate,i dont even want to DREAM of having children.

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